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NEGOTIATION:
BRAZILIAN WAY
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The
Brazilian way to deal with the crisis and recovery
L A COSTACURTA JUNQUEIRA
Vice-President INSTITUTE MVC
costacurta@instituomvc.com.br
For several years
Brazil has been through the "Aperture" process —
a return to
full democracy. Political participation, stronger unions and an intense
search for National Solutions to social and economic problems seem to be
in order. Poverty, low unemployment and a huge foreign debt clamor for
urgent and innovative solutions. The word "negotiate" seems to
be on everyone’s mouth.
The question is:
"Are Brazilian entrepreneurs, executives and managers ready to meet
such a challenge?
Dealing with over
25000 executives in Consulting and Negotiation Training Seminars, MVC, a
private Human Resource Development Consultant agency, has carried out
several surveys yielding the following results.
Negotiating Styles
Using
Integra (1)
typology and instruments which discriminate four styles: the Analyzing,
the Supporting, the Promoting and the Controlling styles, the results
were:
STYLES OF NEGOTIATORS
|
BASIC
STYLES |
96/99
%
|
200/2003
% |
2004/2007
% |
GENERAL
AVERAGE
% |
|
ANALYZING |
30 |
38 |
31 |
33 |
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SUPPORTING |
21
|
20 |
26 |
22 |
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PROMOTING |
30
|
27 |
31 |
29 |
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CONTROLLING
|
19 |
16 |
12 |
16 |
These data are far
apart from the theoretical distribution (25% in each category) which is
also found elsewhere in the world. According to the description:
The Analyzing
style behavior is characterized by a
systematic approach. Detailed and thorough, they like things to be
rational and well organized. Analyzing style people pause until task is
clear. They avoid risks and look for safety and security.
The Supporting
style behavior is oriented towards people.
Persons with this style seek to be included and avoid conflicts. They
tend to follow others and are willing to be of service for them.
The Promoting
style people tend to use their social
skills, generate new ideas and to be persuasive. They look for innovation
and recognition. They are "ideas "oriented and they change
their minds very easily to please those whom they admire.
The Controlling
style behavior is achievements and
results-oriented. Persons with this style respond to a fast moving
challenge. They are efficient, driving and risk taking people. They tend
to be critical, domineering and demanding.
Without further
discussions on the reliability of the reported data we could make some
sort of generalizations on what would be a list of Brazilian negotiators
"deadly sins". This list was fairly accepted by seminar
participants to whom it was introduced
Brazilian Negotiators "deadly
sins"
The following
characteristics predominate in Brazilian negotiators:
Maximum Security
Negotiators avoid risk
taking and prefer dealing, with narrow margins for negotiations, their
maximum/minimum levels for objectives allow little room for concession
and, as a result, impasses and deadlocks come out very frequently. Too
much effort is dedicated to micro concerns and details as opposed to
meaningful macro objectives.
Hermetic
Language
Technical terminology,
jargon and other concealing languages are abused creating an artificial
distance between the parts involved. This breeds defensive behaviors.
Defensive Behavior
"Attack is the
best defense" seems to be the motto. This imposes undue limits to
the interaction. The final result turns to be the product of partial
contribution of the strongest party with less usage of the full
potential of both parts synergy.
Exclusive Logic
The fact that
different people use different logic is seldom taken into account. Facts
data versus feelings intuition is not a dichotomy and very often they are
the two sides of truth, when human concern and values are involved. The
usage of exclusive logic prevents consensus and/or converging
conclusions over the same information.
Poor Listening
Inasmuch getting into
the other’s perspective is crucial to negotiation, poor listening
invites all sort of false assumptions and consequent wrong choice of
arguments leading to improper impositions. Our negotiators overly on
talking and playing tricks instead of dealing with the subjective
reality of the other.
Win-loose perspective
The tendency to "always
take advantage in everything" leads both parties to a long and
difficult battle in which the ends justify the means. There is no
concern with different kinds of profit in negotiations which make them
possible and rewarding.
Emphasis on the opponent’s weaknesses
Since winning is all
that matters and short time perspective prevails, negotiators do not
hesitate in finding and exploiting weaknesses. Resentment and resistance
are the price to be paid for in the next negotiation.
Improvisation
Planning and following
through action steps is out of order. Brazilian negotiators have little
regard for the anticipation of reactions, objections and alternative
ways to be dealt with during the negotiation process – the answer
comes along "on spot". The lack of a reasonable sequence makes
surprise the main challenge and hastiness a "must" during
negotiations. Negotiation entails change and change takes time to be
implemented. So the negotiator who has time on his behalf really rakes
advantage at the end.
Untrust worthiness
After all that has
been said, it should come as no surprise that untrust worthiness
prevails during and after negotiations. Promises are not kept.
Reliability do not follow from stratospheric proposals made just to make
no impression on the other side. Sentiment and feeling as opposed do
data and fact prevent confidence and trust on the opponent.
Relationship as a goal
No matter what happens
during and after the negotiation process, many negotiators do believe
that making friends and having a good time with people is mandatory.
They avoid conflict and they do not tell things that might displease
their opponents through important to the assessment of their thoughts
and feelings
Flexibility
Flexibility can be
defined as the perceived ability of the negotiator in dealing with the
needs, beliefs and ideas of his opponent. It is also the ability in
facing change as an opportunity rather than as a threat.
Flexibility
date
were categorized in four levels ranging from 1 (lowest) to 4 (highest).
It is held that the higher the flexibility the better will be the
negotiator’s behavior during the negotiation process.
The following were the
results on flexibility with the same above described sample.
FLEXIBILITY
|
LEVELS |
96/99
% |
2000/2003
% |
2004/2007
% |
GENERAL
AVERAGE
% |
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4 |
7
|
33 |
46 |
29 |
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3
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23
|
34 |
30 |
29 |
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2
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34
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24 |
18 |
25 |
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1 |
36 |
9 |
6 |
17 |
Results seem to
indicate that flexibility is decreasing among Brazilian negotiators. The
amount of negotiations to be carried out under difficult circumstances,
the lack of the habit of negotiating associated with the foully
behaviors above mentioned do provide good explanations for the
phenomenon.
CONCLUSION
In negotiating with
Brazilian it might be a good idea.
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Let Brazilians
take advantage first
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Give emphasis to
the safety/security issues. You will please half of the
negotiators who adopt the analyzing style
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Make your
proposals reversible so that you can always come back from your
offers and concessions. This will help you to keep the proper mood
during the negotiation process.
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Be kind with the
"deadly sins" for they are caused by the difficult times
we are passing through.
REFERENCE
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Integra – The
Persona Matrix – RONALD BATES Minneapolis,
Interpersonal Growth Systems, 1979.
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SHALL WE NEGOTIATE? THE BRAZILIAN WAY TO DEAL
WITH THE CRISIS
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L A COSTACURTA JUNQUEIRA
CEO of
INSTITUTE MVC
costacurta@instituomvc.com.br
For five years Brazil has been through
the "Aperture" process-a return to full democracy. Political
participation, stronger unions and an intense search for National
Solutions to social and economic problems seem to be in order. 'Proverty,
Negative GIP, Social unrest, severe underemployment and unemployment
(30%), soaring inflation (400% a year) and a huge foreign debt (110
billion dollars) clamor for urgent and innovative solutions. The word
"negotiate" seems to be on everyone's mouth.
The question is: "Are Brazilian.
entrepreneurs, executives and managers ready to meet such a challenge?
Dealing with over 6689 trainees in
Negotiation Training Seminars, Institute MVC, a private Human Resource
Development Consultant agency, has carried out several surveys yielding
the following results.
Negotiating Styles
Using Integro (1) -typology and
instruments which discriminate four styles: the Analyzing, the Supporting,
the Promoting and the Controlling styles, the results were:
|
Style
of Negotiators (1979 – 1986)
Percent
of Styles |
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Style |
Until
Dec 1981
N=
2200 |
Fron
Jan 1982 until Dec 1986
N=4489 |
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Analyzing |
34 |
36 |
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Supporting |
27 |
42 |
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Promoting |
24 |
15 |
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Controlling |
15 |
07 |
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Total |
100 |
100 |
These
data are far apart from the theoretical distribution (25% in each category)
Which is also found elsewhere in the world. According to the Integro
description:
The Analyzinq style
behavior is characterized by an orderly and systematic approach. Detailed
and thorough, they like things to be rational and well organized.
Analyzind style people pause until task is clear. They avoid risks And
look for safety and security.
The Supporting style
behavior is oriented towards people. Persons with this style seek to be
included and avoid conflicts. They tend to follow others and are willing
to be of service for them.
The Promoting style
people tend to use their social skills, generate new ideas and to be
persuasive, They look for innovation and recognition. They are "ideas"
oriented and they change their minds very easily to please those whom they
admire.
The Controlling style
behavior is achievements and results oriented. Persons with this style
respond to a fast moving challenge. They are efficient, driving and risk
taking people. They tend to be critical, domineering and demanding.
Without further
discussions on the reliability of the sort of generalizations on what Would be a list of
Brazilian negotiators "deadly sins". This list was fairly
accepted by seminar participants to whom it was introduced.
Brazilian Negotiators "deadly
sins"
The following characteristics predominate
in Brazilian negotiators:
I -
Maximum
Security
Negotiators avoid risk taking and prefer
dealing, with narrow margins for negotiations, their maximum/minimum
levels for objectives allow little room for concession and, as a result,
impasses and deadlocks come out very frequently. Too much effort is
dedicated to micro concerns and details as opposed to meaningful macro
objectives.
2 -
Hermetic
Language
Technical terminology, jargon and other
concealing languages are abused creating an artificial distance between
the parts involved. This breeds defensive behaviors.
3 -
Defensive
Behavior
"Attack is the best defense"
seems to be the motto. This imposes undue limits to the interaction. The
final result turns to be the product of partial contribution of the
strongest party with less usage of the full potential of both
synergy.
4 -
Exclusive
Logic.
The fact that different people use
different logic is seldom taken into account. Facts data versus feelings
intuition is not a dichotomy and very often they are the two sides of
truth, when human concern and values are involved, The usage of exclusive
logic prevents consensus and/or converging conclusions over the same
information.
5 -
Poor
Listening
Inasmuch getting into the other's
perspective is crucial to negotiation, poor listening invites all sort of
false assumptions and consequent wrong choice. of arguments leading to
improper impositions. Our negotiators over-rely on talking and playing
tricks instead of dealing with the subjective reality of the other.
6 -
Win-loose
perspective
The tendency to "always take
advantage in everything" leads both parties to a long and difficult
battle in which the ends justify the means. There is no concern with
different kinds of profit in negotiations which make them possible and
rewarding.
7 -
Emphasis
on the, opponent's weaknesses
Since winning is all that matters and,
short time perspective prevails, negotiators do not hesitate in finding
and exploiting weaknesses. Resentment and resistance are the price to be
paid for in the next negotiation.
8 -
Improvisation
Planning and following through action
steps is out of order Brazilian negotiators have little regard for the
anticipation of reactions, objections and alternative ways to be dealt
with during the negotiation process-the answer comes along "on
spot". The lack of a reasonable sequence makes surprise the main
challenge and hastiness a "must" during negotiations.
Negotiation entails change and change takes time to be implemented. So the
negotiator who has time on his behalf really rakes advantage at the end.
9 -
Untrust
worthiness
After all that has been said, it
should come as no surprise that untrust worthiness prevails during and
after negotiations. Promises are not kept. Reliability do not follow
from stratospheric proposals made just to make an impression on the
other side. Sentiment and feeling as opposed do data and fact prevent
confidence and trust on the opponent.
10-
Relationships
a goal
No matter what happens during and after
the negotiation process, many negotiators do believe that making friends
and having a good time with people is mandatory. They avoid conflict and
they do not tell things that might displease their opponents through
important to the assessment of their thoughts and feelings.
Flexibility
Flexibility can be defined as the
perceived ability of the negotiator in dealing with the needs, beliefs and
ideas of his opponent. It is also the ability in facing change as an
opportunity rather than as threat.
Flexibility data were categorized in four
levels ranging from 1 (lowest) to 4 (highest). It is held that the higher
the flexibility the better will be the negotiator's behavior during the
negotiation process.
The following were the results on
flexibility with the same above described sample.
FLEXIBILITY
|
Levels |
Up
to Dec 1981 |
From
Jan 1982 to Dec 1986 |
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4 |
27% |
21% |
|
3 |
22.5% |
24% |
|
2 |
28% |
25% |
|
1 |
22.5% |
30% |
Results
seem to indicate that flexibility is decreasing among Brazilian
negotiators. The amount of negotiations to be carried out under difficult
circumstances, the lack of the habit of negotiating associated with the
foulty behaviors above mentioned do provide good explanations for the
phenomenon.
Conclusion
In negotiating with Brazilian it might be
a good idea.
-
Let Brazilians take advantage first.
-
Give emphasis to the safety/security
issues. You will please half of the negotiators who adopt the
analyzing style.
-
Make your proposals reversible so that
you can always come back from your offers and concessions. This will
help you to keep the proper mood during the negotiation process.
-
Be kind with the "deadly
sins" for they are caused by the difficult times we are passing
through.
Luiz
Augusto Costacurta Junqueira
Institute MVC
Vice-President, Management Consultant
Author
of.: Tempo, do Executivo: Problemas e Soluções, Rio, COP
Editora, 198.6 - 4rd Edition
Negotiation
Skill, Rio COP Editora, 19V6.- 3rd Edition
Ataliba
Vianna Crespo
Professor
at-Universidade Federal Fluminense
Management
Consultant
REFERENCE
1
- Integro - The Persona Matrix - Ronald Bates Minneapolis, Interpersonal
Growth Systems, 1979
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THE BEST OPENING SPEECH OF THE LAST ASTDs
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L A
Costacurta Junqueira
JB Vilhena
CEO of INSTITUTE MVC
costacurta@instituomvc.com.br
The opening speech represents a very important moment in every event. And
here, at the ASTD, it couldn’t be different. We have, in the last years, had
the opportunity to be present at several meetings where renowned consultants
came to talk about things that very often we already knew or had even
experienced in Brazil. But this didn’t happen today, June 4th
with Jim Collins speech.
Jim introduced himself not in the role of a teacher or consultant,
instead he performs more like the manager of a learning process devoted to
study how the big companies grow, achieve better performances e turn up to
be exceptional organizations (going from Good to Great companies). One of
the remarkable differences he exhibits in relation to the other consultants
is that Jim discusses the process used by people in the area of corporate
education. The majority of works published in this field seems to be
confined to the report of results. However, because Jim is more concerned
with the “how” – and not only with the “results” – his speech led the public
to ponder over questions such as:
a) You
probably have a log of things demanding to be done, but do you have a log of
things that should never be done? The example Jim gave to illustrate this
idea was the purchasing of the Pacific Southwest Airways (that had been
enduring a critical financial situation) by an unknown air company. This
unknown company decided to continue with all the right things that the PSA
was doing – the use of one single aircraft, for example. But, at the same
time, they decided to stop with all the things typical to be a PSA
characteristic, for instance, they cut off on flight meals and only hand
baggage was permitted to the passengers. They also drove their preference
towards the regional airports in the big cities. Few years later this
formerly unknown company became a benchmark to the American market having
inclusive inspired our Gol company. Its name? Southwest Airlines.
b)
Organizations go through six clearly distinct stages during their lifetime.
In the fifth stage they have in general become great and respected, stemming
the envy and admiration of their competing companies. According to Jim’s
opinion, this is the most dangerous stage. When we believe we have attained
the state-of-art stage probably this is the time when certain changes must
be implemented. Chrysler became the third more important company in the
American automobile sector. But, in less than six years this company went
down several points in the ranking and is today fighting to survive. Does
anyone remember Mesbla, or even the old-time Varig when hearing this kind of
history?
c) Jim
sustains he learned from one of his mentors that “it’s only interesting the
one who is interested”. This is probably a very important lesson for our
marketing and sales personnel. Before trying to make the public interested
in the things they are offering it’ll be necessary to be interested in
knowing what their public understands to be interesting. Let’s see, for
instance, the I-pod example. Why was this equipment developed by Apple and
not by Sony (the walkman creator)? Sony had a very interesting product, but
Apple demonstrated interest in knowing what the market would be willing to
use as a portable sound system. Nowadays millions of I-pods are sold yearly
and walkman is becoming to appear as a museum curiosity.
d) One of
Collins earnest suggestion is that companies should transform their CEOs
into a kind of knowledge multiplier. What good would come from those bearing
undisputed managerial competence, or technical and scientific in depth
knowledge, if these CEOs are unwilling to share such wisdom with the people
they are presently leading? It’s not enough to tell people they ought to
share their learning. And it’ll be necessary for the organizations to
prepare their CEOs for the role of multipliers, giving support to their
initiatives. And when the time comes to evaluate their performance,
effective results should be asked from them in terms of how this competence
was used.
e) More
important than to say – or even to teach – what should be done is create an
appropriate environment where people will always feel inclined to make the
best use of their learning opportunities. As an example, Jim mentioned the
opportunity he had for a visit to Peter Drucker. As he was leaving, at the
moment when their conversation had already finished – and Jim was thanking
his host, he couldn’t resist and asked Drucker why he agreed to receive an
unknown Stanford teacher. And Drucker replied that he had reasons to believe
that, when talking to another person, he always had the occasion to learn
something.
There were many messages and teachings given by Collins in the course of the
75 minutes of his speech. It’s worth saying that, during all this time, the
lecturer exhibited total mastery not only of the subject but inclusive of
its construction. His presentation enthralled the audience. And he has
awaken in everyone the wish to know his ideas better and more profoundly and
read his book “Empresas feitas para Vencer” (Good to Great).
PS. If you wish visit the site
www.jimcollins.com
for more information.
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PINOCCHIO STYLE
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Luiz Augusto
Costacurta Junqueira
CEO of
INSTITUTE MVC
costacurta@instituomvc.com.br
Executives are generally characterized as people who keep asking for
results, demanding fast answers and assertive behaviors, in other words,
they are always searching for the nearest and urgent definitive “truth”.
And,
the real thing is that at the end they finish hearing more lies and half
truths, and worse, accepting or considering as acceptable what they had just
heard.
The
scope of this article is to set down a few of the most usual lies and
uncover certain behaviors/suggestions that could reveal whether what was
said is closer to the truth than to the hoax.
THE MOST
COMMON LIES
We
are light-years ahead of our competitors!!!
We
shouldn’t change what is doing so well, we did a benchmarking and now
everything’s going just fine!
I’ll
deliver this planning tomorrow!!!
Your
participative style is what makes this company grow!!!
You
can relax and take your holiday. Don’t worry, this company will keep going
on.
I’ll
be back in fifteen minutes!
I
can’t figure out why it’s not working, everything is going just like last
year!!!
In
this company we all have the same treatment!!
It’s
been many years since the market is working like that!!!
Leaving all lies behind and searching for the truth we have devised a few
ways to encourage our staff, mates and clients to exhibit a more reliable
behavior.
HOW TO
ENCOURAGE THE TRUTH
Even
though this theme could lead to a more forthright approach I’ve included
here a few styles of behavior that could “help” other people to be more
honest in their relationships. Avoiding any sort of dogmatism, I offer here
a few suggestions;
Try
to identify what there is behind the lies:
Lack
of confidence in you or in the company;
Perhaps scarcity of motivation or
Incompetence;
Etc,
Start
asking others to do anything that you could possibly and reasonably do (in
terms of time schedule, competence, costs, etc);
Order
verbally, but later try to confirm the order in written before the time
schedule is over;
Keep
in mind to have always a witness by your side when you’re placing an order
and the same witness (if possible) when your order is being delivered (in
special cases, of course);
Try
not to say harsh words to the person who lied to you, use the silence to
disconcert him (her) or to make him (her) understand the truth;
Ask
this person to” write down” the lie and then to e-mail it to you soon after
the interview;
Repeat the lie with your own words giving the excuse that you want to be
sure to understand quite well what has been said;
Try
to think you’re in a poker game and learn how to identify gestures and
behaviors that could reveal your counterpart is not telling the truth;
A lie
shouldn’t be spread about, keep it within the four walls and make it revert
to the same person who told it (just to make easier its correction);
The
person in question should be reminded that we are entitled to say a lie (or
a half truth) only once, the problem is in the second, third or …. times;
Discuss everything you’ve been told, it’ll make your counterpart respect you
even more. The ideas we’re describing here are really very simple
and there’s no doubt that your experience has already shown you something
quite similar (or perhaps, with more details). It may happen that if you can
hold a more structured position it’ll help with the management of the
problem.
It’ll
be important to remember that lies don’t go very far (they’re short legged),
they don’t survive and the sooner they are unmasked the slighter will be the
inevitable consequences to third parties relationships and to the results
for your company.
Finishing, give the example. Always say the truth, even when it’s a bitter
one!
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NEGOCIATIONS AND THE WIN-WIN MYTH
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JB Vilhena
Vice-President of the Instituto MVC and
MBA Coordinator in FGV´s Commercial Management
vilhena@institutomvc.com.br
The best
agreement is that of the yield-yield
J. B.
Vilhena
In
management many myths are being blamelessly created, or perhaps they even go
unscathed. There are those who truly believe that advertising is the
business soul, and there are those who almost swear that the client is
always right. In addition there are those who fight tooth and nail that it
is better to sell something that the client doesn’t wish or need than leave
bare handed the interview. And so on. In our seminaries, speeches and
training courses we have always tried to discuss the harmful results created
in the organizations by the belief in many of these myths.
Today
we want to discuss with you one of the most frequent of the negotiation
myths: the winning myth.
Looking up in any dictionary we’ll find that the word “method” can be
rendered as a form or process to do something. Inspired by the myth a few
negotiators arrive at the conclusion that it is possible to follow each step
of the process “winning” something. Let’s see if this idea makes sense.
If
every negotiation arises from a situation of disagreement in terms of means,
and of agreement in terms of the end, the only possible method to arrive at
a satisfactory harmony for both parties will be the yielding method.
Let’s
consider basically a commercial negotiation. Party A wants to sell a
product, however this product cannot be delivered before the next 90 days.
Party B wants to by the product – and here we find the disagreement in terms
of end – but wants it within a maximum of 45 days. Therefore, we have here a
disagreement in terms of means. Imagining that the time schedule required by
both parties is real, the only way to establish an agreement is to obtain,
from each party, some sort of concession, for example to close the deal with
a 70 days delivery (both parties had to do some yielding, right?).
If
the negotiation has a political feature we can imagine the following
situation. Party A wants a minimum wage of R$300,00 while Party B proposes
R$240,00. After endless discussions they arrive at an agreement of R$255,00.
They had both to make concessions, to yield.
In
union negotiations the “boss” offers an 8% increase while employees are
claiming 20%. After many discussions the parties agree with 10%. Can you
deny that both parties have yielded a little and they arrived at a
satisfactory conclusion?
I
don’t pretend to deny that parties very often ask for more than what they
really think it would be the minimum acceptable. The strategy here is to
pretend that you are making concessions in order to obtain compensations
from the other (in other words, what we say that is the maximum we can
concede, is really the minimum). Sometimes, we stand our ground in terms of
a certain request when, in fact, what we really want is quite different (we
call it our hidden agenda). In this case, the strategy is to make our
counterpart to concede certain things supposing that they aren’t our main
goal (for instance, when the client is insisting in a price reduction when
what he really wants is a more convenient time schedule for the payment. But
this is the game of the win-lose, isn’t it?
There
are many techniques which, however leading to the win-lose, are widely used
aiming to compel the other party to make concessions above what could be
possibly considered as reasonable:
Blanket: consists in mentioning everything we want to find out later what we
really could be disposing of (the analogy is, shall leave the head or the
feet uncovered?)
Brackets: consists in segregate what the other party is more interested in
aiming to make it look for a defensive position.
Surprise: consists in a unexpected change of the purpose of the negotiation,
leaving the other party uncertain and unprepared to negotiate.
Intimidation: consist in threatening the other party – suggesting to put an
immediate end to the negotiation, for example.
Silence: consists in avoiding to give any opinion or criticism about what is
being proposed with the purpose of disorienting the other party.
Dribble: consists in make believe that we want something in special when we
are really interested in another thing quite different.
Limited authority: consists in create a superior agency that has to be
consulted before we are in condition to give a final answer to any
proposition received.
Good
boy/bad boy: negotiators working together. One plays the role of a good boy,
while the other is the bad boy.
We
could include here a very long list that comprises a few tricks, strategies
and frauds. When talking to participants of our events a significant number
of them confessed that this expedient has been largely used when they want
to arrive at certain agreements. According to their opinion they are acting
in consonance with the rules proposed by books and manuals (unhappily many
of them really propose these things) and, consequently, this people have no
idea that they are behaving against any ethic or moral limits.
Here,
at MVC, we have a different way of thinking. Since Luiz Augusto Costacurta
Junqueira has been actively working as adviser in seminars our company was
always convinced that “it is better to lose a negotiation than make a bad
bargain”
We
have sustaiened – long time before Daniel Goleman wrote his book
Intelligence Emotional – that the crucial element in a negotiation is
behavioral. We have always encouraged people to examine carefully the
process in order to identify the positive aspects of the offer that is being
made to the other party, so that the compulsory concessions could be
rewarded with advantages – financial, emotional and strategic – offered by
the other. We encourage empathy as one of the best strategies to be able to
“think as the other thinks”.
Our firm
belief is that a win-win attitude really exists, but not in the process. It
can be reached at the end of each negotiation when the parties sums up all
concessions made, compares with all results attained and arrive at the
conclusion that it was really worth while.
Material
from the ADVANCED NEGOTIATION PROGRAM
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LEARNING HOW TO NEGOCIATE WITH “GOD”
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Luiz Augusto
Costacurta Junqueira
CEO of
INSTITUTE MVC
costacurta@instituomvc.com.br
A
significant portion of professionals and executives fall into basic mistakes
when negotiating or trying to persuade the “Corporate Gods”, or better,
those who presently are filling top positions in their organizations.
Among
these mistakes we can point out the emphasis given to quality in detriment
of quantity, the inability to summarize and disclose their ideas, or to
carry on an argumentation where the customizing process has not been taken
in account, or has not been founded on the peculiar characteristics of those
whom they have previously made business which.
Our
monthly text offers today a few suggestions to negotiate and persuade those
persons who occupy top positions in the organizational hierarchy (or
heavenly positions).
To
begin with it is always useful to remember that “Gods” have usually a result
oriented mind, willfully tangible and quantified. Firstly, try to begin any
contact mentioning the expected results and to explain, only then, the
procedures that more likely will be used for this achievement.
Considering that the “Gods” language is based on “numbers”, you must strive
to insert quantified information in your reasoning process; numbers
constitute a worldwide (or heavenly) language, equally understood by earthly
or celestial beings.
“Gods” are usually very sensitive to facts, to the competitors experiences,
(the devils, certainly), to benchmarking examples, requests or statements
from clients, suppliers or official authorities (all them as earthly as
ourselves); try to introduce such information as if they were a “filling” to
your assertions.
Never
begin a interview or a meeting without the traditional questions, “how much
time do I have?” or “When do you expect it will be finished?”. Try also to
keep yourself within the previously established limits, let him be the
own“God” if anyone oversteps such limits.
First
of all, don’t forget to keep in mind your “God’s” behavior characteristics
and make use of them in you presentation:
Is he
more inclined to see our hear your ideas?
From
the Bible or the Koran?
To
already proved and safe ideas or is he more inclined to run the risks?
Is he
likely to prefer relationships or results?
Perhaps an informal presentation, or is he in love with a Power-point with
detailed texts?
Prefers that those heavenly differences from competitors are mentioned?
We
previously mentioned that facts are essential, but now we wish to remind you
that opinions are dangerous, especially when they are given | |